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Name: Felicia
Location: Shreveport, Louisiana, United States
Birthday: 8/7/1985
Gender: Female
Interests: I love God (above all else), theatre and drama, music, playing the guitar and bass, praise and worship and fellowship, ERS, Star Wars, Monty Python, Hook, 10th Kingdom, and Phantom of the Opera. I love to sing and write songs.
Occupation: Artist
Industry: Entertainment
Message: message meEmail: email me
AIM:  SeRvInGCHRIST247
Member Since:
10/27/2005
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| News Flash.....
James's Youth Group Gets Mad Props!!!!!
Felicia | | |
| OK, so lets get past the formalities... New job's going ok... I mean hey it's a job right? Finally got a new starter for my car, hopefully it will get put on tomorrow. There is a prospect of me getting a new car in January, a 1995 mustang convertible. Nice right? lol.
OK. Now, about how my 17 year old brother dropped the bomb in my lab today that I may be a aunt soon. While it is not definite, there is a possibility that his 25 year old girlfriend is pregnant. I'm floored by even the prospect that my baby brother is going to have a baby. He doesn't even have job. He couldn't even take care of a puppy, little lone a living, breathing, CRYING, drooling, hungry, baby. Don't get me wrong, if there is a baby on the way, I will help out in any way I can. I guess I'm just overwhelmed right now. I honestly never thought that I would ever be put in this situation. What do I say to my 17 year old brother who is about to be a father, and he definitely isn't ready for it? He admits that he didn't exactly want to have a kid so soon, but he seems to be way too laid back about the idea of being a daddy so young. It's not just his age that bothers me. It's the fact that he doesn't even have a job. He still lives at home with his parents, (side note. His girlfriend lives with him in our parents house.) Neither one of them are financially, emotionally, mentally, or physically mature enough to handle this responsibility. On top of that, if it turns out that she isn't pregnant, I really don't think that this scare is going to change his behavior. He's not going to learn anything from this. So if it's not now, it's only a matter of time before it does happen. I just don't know what to say or think about the situation. I never expected this.
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| I got these off of myspace from a friend and just thought that they held such truth... it should be shared.... So Guys this is how to treat a girl right.
1. Hugs from behind.
2. Grab her hand when you walk next to each other(don't make her grab yours).
3. When standing, wrap your arms around her.
4. Cuddle with her.
5. DON'T FORCE HER TO DO ANYTHING.
6. Write little notes.
7. Compliment her Honestly.
8. When you hug her, hold her in your arms as long as possible.
9. Be super sweet to her.
10. Call her at night to wish her sweet dreams.
11. Comfort her when she cries.
12.Wipe away her tears
13. Love her with all your heart.
14. Pick her up and flirt with her (she'll scream and say put me down but really she loves it).
15. Be a gentleman (hold the door for her).
16. Don't let your friends talk trash about her, it'll get back 2 her!
& DONT ever act diff in front of ur friends than u r when its just u and her!!!!
17. Take her for a long walk at night!
18. Always bring a blanket where ever you go outside when its cold to comfort her and hold her close
19. NEVER LIE TO HER!!!!!! because then she will think everything you ever said to her was a lie, even "i love you"
~ You know, a lot of them could be applied to just a friendship with a girl too...
Like..... don't let your friends trash talk her, don't be different in front of your other friends, be there to comfort her when she needs it.... not when it is convinent for you, and NEVER LIE TO HER, losing even a friends trust is the hardest thing to ever get back. But even if you make mistakes, ignoring the mistakes you make is far worse and harder to forgive then the mistake. | | |
| THIS IS A FORMAL NOTICE.... WHO EVER GOT ON MY XANGA WITHOUT MY KNOWLEDGE AND PERMISSION... I DO NOT WANT IT TO HAPPEN AGAIN!!! I HOPE THAT I HAVE MADE MY SELF CLEAR! DUE TO THIS INCIDENT I AM NOW CHANGING MY PASSWORD TO EVERYTHING. THIS IS MY PRIVATE JOURNAL, JUST BECAUSE YOU FIGURED OUT WHAT MY PASSWORD IS DOES NOT GIVE ANYONE THE RIGHT TO SIGN INTO IT WITH OUT MY PERMISSION.... THOSE THAT I PRIVILAGE TO MY PASSWORD DO NOT EVEN SIGN IN WITH OUT MY KNOWLEDGE. NOW THAT THAT IS UNDERSTOOD..... MOVE ALONG THERE IS NOTHING MORE TO SEE HERE.
Felicia | | |
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